bad mood friday

I did not sleep very well last night, therefore, not in the greatest mood this morning...but, luckily it was just made worse by my dad's persistence on being non-assertive and never believing that he is worth anyone's time. Case in point: I left him a message last night trying to make plans for father's day (which is in 3 days, I'm also resenting the fact that I am always the planner these days but really who else is going to do it?) He calls back and says "Now, I don't want ya'll to mess up your day because of me." I reply, "Dad, its Father's Day...its a day about you..." This makes no sense to me, just doesn't compute, and angers me. Then he says, "Ok, well why don't we just do lunch?" "Perfect," I say, "where would you like to go? Since its your day." Then he says my favorite part: "You know, it really doesn't matter to me. I can eat a hamburger and feel full, and then I don't really know whether I've eaten a steak or a hamburger." Me: no response. "I'm just kidding," he says. He also mentions something about Dick Russel's which I completely ignore. At this point I decide its just best if I make the plans then let everyone know what they are. To summarize, I really don't enjoy having to get everyone together for these events, its just never easy....And now, I resent how unhelpful everyone is.